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EP 39 // Horse Behaviour: How to Read the Signals Your Horse Gives You — In Training and Beyond

🧡 Episode Summary
Your horse is communicating with you all the time. In every step, every transition, and every subtle shift in the body. The question is not if your horse is talking to you — it’s whether you’re noticing it early enough.
In this episode, we dive into one of the most important skills you can develop as a rider:Learning to read your horse before things escalate into tension, resistance, or “problems.”
Using the story of Henrik, we explore how small signals often go unnoticed — until they turn into something much bigger. And more importantly, how you can start recognising those signals earlier and respond in a way that builds trust, clarity, and better training.
🐴 In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why “bad behaviour” is almost always information — not disobedience
How your horse is constantly learning from your signals (even the unintentional ones)
The difference between learned behaviour, stress responses, and miscommunication
How to recognise your horse’s stress level in real time
The stages of your horse’s communication — from subtle signals to big reactions
How responding earlier can completely change the outcome
Why your ability to listen is the foundation of trust
🔍 The 5 key steps from this episode
1. See behaviour as informationInstead of labelling your horse as difficult or stubborn, get curious:What is my horse trying to tell me right now?
2. Understand learning and miscommunicationYour horse is always learning from you — every ride, every interaction.Often, your horse is doing exactly what it believes you’re asking for.Clarity and timing make all the difference.
3. Learn your horse’s stress zones
Green: Very relaxed
Yellow: Engaged, ready to learn (this is where we want to be)
Orange: Rising tension, learning becomes harder
Red: Survival mode — no learning possible
4. Recognise the signals earlyIt starts small:
Blinking, licking, looking away→ builds into:
Yawning, scratching, nibbling→ then:
Avoidance, moving away→ and finally:
Tension and bigger reactions
5. Show your horse you are listeningRespond earlier:Soften your aids, adjust the exercise, break things down, or pause.When you listen, your horse learns to trust you.
✨ This week’s focus
Before you ask anything in your next ride:Pause and observe.
Then, throughout your ride, keep asking yourself:👉 What is my horse trying to tell me right now?
You don’t need all the answers.You just need to stay curious.
💭 Key takeaway
Big reactions rarely come out of nowhere.They are the end of a conversation you didn’t realise was happening.
When you start listening earlier…you don’t just prevent problems —you build a true partnership based on trust.
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EP 38 // Is Your Horse Trying to Tell You Something? — How I Almost Missed What Was Right in Front of Me

Episode Description
This one is personal.
Over the past year my horse had been telling me something wasn't working for him. Turning away when I came to get him from the field. Stopping in front of the stable door and refusing to go in. Weaving in his box, stressed, not settling, barely eating.
And I watched it happen. Slowly. Until it became normal.
In this episode I'm being honest about how I almost missed it — and what happened the moment I finally listened. Because within one night of making a change, he was a completely different horse. Calm, peaceful, coming to me in the field with soft eyes and a quiet body.
But this episode is not just about my horse. It's about a pattern every horse owner falls into at some point — and what it really means to listen to the animal in front of you.
In This Episode
The signs my horse was giving me and how they slowly became the new normal
The decision I made and what happened the very next morning
How behaviours that creep in gradually stop us from seeing what's actually right in front of us
Why your horse never stops communicating — even when we stop noticing
A question to take with you about your own horse right now
Key Takeaway
Behaviour doesn't lie. Every reluctance, every tension, every habit that wasn't there a year ago is your horse trying to tell you something. Our job is to stay curious — and to keep asking why — before the wrong thing becomes so normal we forget it was ever wrong.
Reflection Question for You
Is there a behaviour your horse has right now that you've stopped questioning?
Something that crept in gradually and is now just how things are. Take a moment and ask yourself — when did this start? What might my horse be trying to tell me?
You don't have to have the answer today. Just look again with fresh eyes.
Connect With Me
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EP 37 // Spring is here! Is Your Horse Spooky and Tense Outside? — How Loose Reins and Your Presence Build Trust on Every Ride

Spring is here — and if you're feeling that pull to get out of the arena and back into nature, this episode is for you.
Getting back outside after a winter of arena work is one of my favourite things. But it's also a transition that deserves a little intention. For both of you.
Your horse has been in a controlled environment for months. And now suddenly there are birds, wind, tractors, plastic bags in hedges and flags flapping on gates. He is going to notice all of it. And how you respond in those moments will make all the difference.
In this episode I'm talking about how to use spring riding in nature to build real physical strength in your horse — and how to handle the spooking, the looking and the tension in a way that builds trust instead of creating more fear.
In This Episode
Why varied terrain and ground is one of the most underrated training tools you have — and how it builds genuine strength in joints, tendons and muscles
How to build back outside riding gradually after a winter on arena footing
Why your horse looking at things is not a problem to fix — and what to do instead
How loose reins and your presence communicate more than any correction can
How to check in with your own body outside — because your tension travels straight to your horse
What trust actually looks like when it's built in small, quiet moments
Key Takeaways
On the ground beneath you: Every different surface — grass, gravel, sand, slopes, soft ground — asks something different from your horse's body. You don't need a special programme. You just need to ride outside and let the ground do its work. Build it gradually if your horse has been on arena footing all winter.
On the spooking: Your horse is a prey animal. His nervous system is designed to notice things. When he looks at something, he is doing exactly what he is built to do. Don't pull his head away — that tells him there is something to be afraid of. Give him time to look, to process, to decide it's safe. Most of the time, if you stay calm, he will too.
On your presence: Loose reins are not a lack of control. They are a message. I am not afraid. You don't need to be either. I'm here. Over hundreds of small moments like this, your horse learns that you are his safe place — and that horse will go anywhere with you.
On yourself: Check in with your own body outside. Shorter reins than you need, stiff seat, bracing for a reaction before it happens — your horse feels all of it. Ride the horse you have today, not the one you're afraid he might become.
Reflection for Your Next Ride
Before you ask for anything outside — just notice. Where is your horse? Is he relaxed and curious or already tense and anticipating? And where are you? Are your shoulders soft, are you breathing, is your seat following the movement freely?
You being present and relaxed is the single most powerful thing you can offer him out there.
Connect With Me
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EP 36 // Is Your Horse's Back Causing Problems? — How to Treat the Spine Neck to Tail With the DORN Method

Is Your Horse's Back Causing Problems? — How to Treat the Spine Neck to Tail With the DORN Method
Episode Description
Most horse owners know when something is off with their horse's back. But do you know what to look for — and what to do about it?
In this episode I'm walking you through the DORN method from neck to tail. This is one of the most powerful tools I use to keep my horses' backs strong, pain-free and in full range of motion — and today I'm breaking it down so you can start using it on your own horse.
I've also included two videos in the show notes — one horse with back pain, one without. Watch them before or while you listen. Seeing the difference with your own eyes will change the way you look at your horse's back forever.
Watch the Videos First
🎥 https://fb.watch/GvhcsgRTa3/ 
Watch how the back moves — or doesn't. Look at the posture, the expression, the way the body swings. Look at the skin twitching and the avoidance of the pressure. Then come back and listen.
In This Episode
What the DORN method is, where it comes from and why it works for horses
How to read a horse in pain versus a horse moving freely — what to look for before you even touch
A full walk-through of the spine from neck to tail — what to feel for at each section and how to work with it
How the horse tells you you've found the right spot
How often to work through the spine and why prevention matters just as much as treatment
What to Look for in the Videos
When you watch the two videos, pay attention to these things:
How does the back move? Does it swing freely and softly — or does it look stiff and locked?
How does the horse carry itself? Is the back lifted and relaxed or tight and braced?
What does the expression say? A horse in pain often shows it in the face first — tight eyes, a tense jaw, a look of quiet discomfort that has become so constant you might stop noticing it
Key Takeaways
A healthy, pain-free back in full range of motion changes everything — how your horse moves, how it carries a rider, and how it feels in its daily life. This is not just about treating pain when it appears. It is about keeping the back free so pain never gets the chance to settle in.
Connect With Me
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EP 35 // Why Did I Lose My Motivation? — When Life Goes Quiet and You Don't Know Why

Why Did I Lose My Motivation? — When Life Goes Quiet and You Don't Know Why
Episode Description
I made myself a promise when I started this podcast. One episode a week. No exceptions.
And then — for a few weeks — I just stopped.
Not because of a crisis. Not because something dramatic happened. I just didn't feel like it. And honestly? I still don't have a clean explanation for why.
In this episode I'm being completely honest about the pause, the guilt around it, and the strange realisation that I'm not the only one feeling this kind of quiet restlessness right now. People around me are questioning jobs they've had for years, sports they've done their whole lives, habits that used to feel completely right. Something is shifting — and nobody is really talking about it.
So today I am.
Whether you've felt something like this yourself or you're right in the middle of it — this one's for you.
In This Episode
Why I broke my own rule and what I'm still not sure about
The quiet restlessness showing up in people around me — jobs, sports, hobbies, routines
Whether this is just me and a few people I know — or something bigger
What happens when the world gets loud and we finally slow down enough to ask: is this still right for me?
Reflection Question for You
Is there something in your life right now that used to feel completely right — but feels a little different lately?
A job. A hobby. A routine. Something you haven't acted on or even said out loud yet, but that's been quietly sitting with you.
I'd love to hear about it. Send me a message — you're not alone in this.
Connect With Me
📧 happyriderhealthy@gmail.com
📱 Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Community
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Happy Rider Healthy Horse is published every week — practical strategies, honest conversations, and always with your horse's wellbeing at the centre.

EP 34 // Are You Training Your Horse the Best Way? The 4 Methods Every Rider Should Know

Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why you train your horse the way you do? In this episode we explore the four fundamental ways behaviour can be influenced in horse training: positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, positive punishment, and negative punishment. Most riders rely heavily on pressure and release without always being aware of it. By understanding these four influences, you can begin to make more conscious choices in your training and create clearer communication with your horse. This episode invites you to reflect on your own habits in the saddle and explore small adjustments that may improve both motivation and welfare for your horse.
Key Takeaways
• There are only four ways behaviour can be influenced in training: two reinforcements and two punishments.
• Positive reinforcement adds something pleasant, such as a treat or scratch, to increase a behaviour.
• Negative reinforcement removes pressure, such as releasing the leg or rein aid when the horse responds.
• Positive punishment adds pressure or discomfort to decrease behaviour and can easily escalate tension if used habitually.
• Negative punishment removes something the horse values, such as attention or reward, to reduce behaviour.
• Most traditional horse training relies heavily on negative reinforcement.
• Awareness of these methods helps riders make kinder and clearer training choices.
This Week’s Exercise
Goal:Become aware of which training influence you are using most often during a ride.
Steps:
Ride your horse as you normally would during a training session.
Begin observing moments where you influence your horse’s behaviour.
Ask yourself whether you are adding something or removing something.
Notice whether the behaviour becomes more likely (reinforcement) or less likely (punishment).
Experiment with adding one moment of positive reinforcement when your horse tries.
Feel-checks:
• Feel-check: Notice whether your horse becomes more relaxed or curious after a reward.
• Feel-check: When you release pressure, does your horse soften and breathe out within a few strides?
• Feel-check: Observe if the overall atmosphere of the ride becomes calmer or more motivated.
Quote
“Your horse doesn’t wake up with ambitions. The ambitions are ours, and our job is to help the horse understand them.” — Sarah
Resources / Links
• Join the HRHH Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133 
Call to Action
• Try one or two of these reflections on your next ride and notice what changes in your horse.
• Questions or 1:1 coaching: happyriderhealthyhorse@gmail.com
• Join the HRHH community on Facebook.
• If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star written review.

EP 33 // Do You Actually Know Which Leg Your Horse Is Lame On? Here’s How to Know

If your horse feels “a little off,” do you actually know which leg is affected — or are you guessing? In this episode, we slow everything down and learn how to observe lameness calmly and systematically. You’ll discover how to check your horse in the stable, what to look for on a straight line, how to use lunging to gather information, and why hind limb lameness is often harder to detect. This is not about diagnosing — it’s about training your eye, reducing panic, and protecting your horse through early, thoughtful observation.
• Lameness observation starts in stillness — look and feel before you move.• Compare left and right legs for heat, swelling, and sensitivity.• “Down on sound”: the head drops on the sound foreleg, lifts on the painful one.• Watch hind hooves step into front hoofprints on a straight line.• On the lunge, compare both directions for willingness and head movement.• Hind limb lameness shows in the pelvis — subtle rise and drop asymmetry.• Not all unevenness equals injury — some asymmetry is functional.• Video your horse when sound to build a reference library.
Goal: Train your eye calmly and build confidence in your observations.
Steps:
Check all four legs in the stable. Compare temperature, filling, and reactions.
Watch your horse walk and trot in a straight line from the side.
Lunge on a 15 m circle both directions and film it.
If safe, observe pelvic movement from behind and compare hip height.
Feel-check: Notice if one leg feels warmer or more fluid-filled than the other.Feel-check: In trot, observe whether the head consistently lifts when the same foreleg bears weight.Feel-check: On the lunge, watch if one side of the pelvis rises higher during weight bearing.
“Observation creates clarity. And clarity protects your horse.” — Sarah
• Film your horse when sound and keep the video as reference or send it to me and I will help you.• If in doubt, contact your veterinarian.• Questions or video feedback: HRHH@gmail.com• Join the HRHH Facebook community.
Try 1–2 of these steps this week — even if your horse feels completely sound — and notice what you observe. Early awareness protects welfare.
Are you guessing which leg is lame? Learn how to spot early signs of horse lameness calmly and protect your horse’s welfare.

EP 32 // Are You Overwhelmed by Your Calendar? How to Stop Being Overwhelmed and Protect Your Energy as a Rider

Many riders feel stuck in their training — but the real tension often begins long before they enter the arena. In this episode, we explore how a constantly full calendar affects your nervous system, your presence, and ultimately your horse. I share my own story of being a time optimist and people pleaser, and how learning to say no changed my energy at home and in the saddle. You’ll get simple, practical steps to create space, regulate your body, and arrive at your horse calm, clear, and available.
• A busy schedule keeps your nervous system in subtle survival mode• Chronic low-level stress reduces feel, patience, and clarity in the saddle• Your horse mirrors your internal pace — even when you don’t notice it• Saying no creates recovery space, not disappointment• White space in your calendar improves presence and connection• Regulation leads to fewer aids and better welfare• Protecting your energy makes you more generous, not less
This Week’s Exercise
Goal: Arrive regulated and present at your next ride.
Steps:
Open your calendar and protect one afternoon, evening, or full day for the next 14 days.
Cancel or decline one non-essential commitment.
Before your next ride, sit in your car for one minute and ask: “How am I arriving today?”
Feel-checks:• Feel-check: Your shoulders soften and your breathing slows before mounting.• Feel-check: The first 5–10 minutes of your warm-up feel less rushed.• Feel-check: Your contact feels elastic, not fixed.
“Your horse does not need a busy rider. Your horse needs a present one.”
Try 1–2 steps on your next ride and tell me what you felt.Questions or 1:1 coaching: dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.comJoin the HRHH community on Facebook.If this helped, please leave a 5-star written review.
Make peace with your calendar to reduce rider stress, regulate your nervous system, and improve dressage connection and horse welfare.

EP 31 // How to Improve Your Horse’s Canter for Higher Dressage Scores and to Build Strength for Longevity

EP 31 // How to Improve Your Horse’s Canter for Higher Dressage Scores and to Build Strength for Longevity
Many riders lose the natural jump in the canter while trying to improve it. In this episode, I explain why collecting and driving at the same time often creates a flat, blocked canter — and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to improve collected canter for higher dressage scores while building real strength that supports your horse’s body and long-term soundness. I share clear rider adjustments, six practical canter steps, and a calm, welfare-first mindset that helps your horse carry himself with more lift, balance, and ease — without pressure or force.
• Step 1: How your rider position and self-carriage allow your horse to carry himself• Step 2: A canter exercise that activates the hindquarters and abdominal muscles without rushing• Step 3: Using a 20-metre circle to engage the inside handle and rebuild natural jump, strength, and true collection without holding• Step 4: Improving balance and adjustability with light shoulder-in on the long side• Step 5: Why walk–canter transitions often give you the best canter jump• Step 6: How canter poles — in the lunge — help your horse work freely over the back and organise his body naturally
For your next ride, choose just one exercise and keep it simple. Ride canter on a large or 20-metre circle. Ride three normal canter strides, sitting softly. On the fourth stride, rise into a light seat and apply a light, even pressure with both lower legs to invite your horse to engage his hind legs and abdominal muscles and lift his body under you. Sit softly again and repeat a few times only.
Notice that the canter feels more lifting, not faster. The back feels softer and more elastic. Your breathing and contact stay calm and light.
“You carry yourself — so your horse can carry himself.” — Sarah
Try one or two of these ideas on your next ride and notice what you feel.Questions or 1:1 coaching: dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.com or DMJoin the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse community on Facebook and write your questions or your typical challenge in the comments.If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star written review.
Improve your horse’s canter for higher dressage scores with simple, welfare-first steps that build lift, strength, and long-term soundness.

EP 30 // How to Use the Masterson Method for Minor Injuries and Acute Swellings in Horses

When your horse gets injured or suddenly shows swelling, it’s easy to feel unsure and powerless. In this episode, you’ll learn what you can calmly and safely do when your horse has a minor injury or an acute swelling that doesn’t immediately require a vet. We walk through simple assessment steps, how to observe movement, and how the Masterson Method can support your horse by releasing muscle tension, improving circulation, and helping the nervous system settle. Through a real-life story and clear, gentle guidance, this episode shows how listening to your horse can make a meaningful difference in stressful moments—always with welfare first and the vet as your backup when in doubt.
• Stay calm and observe before acting• Assess swelling, heat, posture, and weight bearing• Let movement show you where the body struggles• Use light touch and follow the horse’s responses• Support blood flow by helping muscles release• Expect changes as the body regulates itself
Goal: Support comfort and reduce tension after a minor injury or acute swelling.
Stand quietly and observe your horse in the stable. Look for swelling, heat, and asymmetry.
If safe, observe your horse in movement on both reins without asking for performance.
Use light touch on sensitive areas and wait for eye blinking before staying with the contact.
Allow the release and reassess daily rather than doing long sessions.
Feel-check: Eye blinking, softer breathing, or a deep sigh under your fingers.Feel-check: Chewing, yawning, or gentle stretching during the release.Feel-check: Changes in swelling, posture, or ease of movement over the next 24–48 hours.
Try one or two of these steps the next time your horse shows a mild swelling or tension.If you’re unsure what you’re feeling, send a DM or email and ask.If you live in Denmark, you can book a full Masterson treatment.If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star written review.
Calm, welfare-first guidance on using the Masterson Method to release tension from chronic injuries and support horses with minor acute injuries and swellings.